Are You Losing Yourself In Relationships?
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A Raw, Science-Backed 5-Day Course That Will Transform How You See Love Forever.
You're not crazy, needy, or broken. It's brain chemistry.
Is This You?
You feel like you're losing yourself in relationships (Highjacked), barely recognising who you've become
You can't stop thinking about their touch, their kiss – these thoughts consume your workday and keep you up at night
You know the relationship isn't healthy, but the thought of leaving feels impossible
Your entire mood depends on them - whether they've texted back
You keep sacrificing your dreams, hobbies, and friendships for relationships
You find yourself constantly checking their social media, looking for any sign of their attention
Ready to Break Free?
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You're not crazy, needy, or broken.
Your brain is addicted.
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Here's the Truth No One's Telling You
Society sold us a dangerous fairy tale: that losing yourself in love is romantic, that obsession means it's meant to be, and that finding your "soul mate" or "twin flame" will complete you.
But what if everything we've been taught about love is setting us up for failure?
What if the very stories that promised to lead us to happiness are actually trapping us in cycles of addiction and disappointment?
Here's another truth
We know so little about our most important organ – our brain. It's the conductor of every emotion, thought, and behaviour we have, yet we've left understanding it to scientists alone.
Isn't it time we took responsibility for understanding the biology behind what we call "love"?
When we understand our brain, we understand ourselves.
What Makes This Course Different
No fluffy "just love yourself" advice
Science-backed insights explained in human terms
Real, practical techniques you can use today
Raw honesty about the recovery process
A blend of neuroscience and real-life experience
What You'll Discover in This Free 5-Day Course
Day 1: The Love Drug in Your Brain
Why your relationship feels like a drug (because scientifically, it is)
The exact chemical cocktail making you obsess
Why willpower alone isn't enough to break free
Day 2: How Society Set You Up for Addiction
The dangerous myth about "true love" that's keeping you stuck
Why rom-coms are damaging your love life
The fundamental difference between love and addiction
Day 3: Your Emergency Toolkit
Practical techniques to break the obsession cycle
The 5-minute reset that stops the spiral
What to do when the urge hits (and it will)
Day 4: Rediscover Your Identity
How to remember who you are beyond relationships
Breaking free from the "perfect partner" trap
Building a life that's yours, not theirs
Day 5: Building Real, Healthy Love
What actual love looks like (hint: it's not what you think)
How to form relationships without losing yourself
The path to sustainable, addiction-free love
Join Others on This Transformative Journey
For the first time, I understand why I keep falling into the same patterns...
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ABOUT LOVE DOESN'T EXIST
(Not The Way We WereTaught)
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The thought-provoking newsletter that exposes the uncomfortable truths about love and relationships in modern times...
... and making you question everything you thought you knew about love.
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In “Love Doesn’t Exist,” I blend scientific research, cultural analysis, and my turbulent journey through relationship addiction to challenge the conventional narratives that trap us in unhealthy relationships.
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Build healthier, more genuine connections once you see what’s really going on beneath the surface
ABOUT
Hey Friends, I'm Ellen
Why Learn From Me?
I've walked in your shoes – losing myself entirely in relationships, thinking it was true love. At first, I blamed myself for being needy or dismissed it as just childhood trauma. Then, I elevated these connections to "soul mate" and "twin flame" status to justify the intensity of my feelings.
But I noticed something that changed everything
Whenever the intensity faded, I'd return to being healthy and balanced. This revelation launched me on a mission to uncover the truth about love and addiction.
My obsession with finding answers led me to study under world-leading neuroscience, psychology, biology, and trauma experts – What I discovered will transform how you see love forever.
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What is “Love Doesn’t Exist” about?
“Love Doesn’t Exist” explores the biological, cultural, and societal factors that shape our understanding of love and relationships. It challenges common myths and provides insights to help you build healthier, more authentic connections.
Do I need any background knowledge to benefit from this newsletter?
No, you don’t need any prior knowledge. I present complex concepts in clear, accessible language based on over 10 years of self-study. This makes the science behind love understandable and applicable to everyone interested in improving their relationships.
Who is Ellen Mouton, and why did she create this newsletter?
I’m Ellen Mouton, the creator of “Love Doesn’t Exist.” After struggling with relationship addiction and feeling controlled by my emotions, I embarked on a decade-long quest to understand my behaviour and reclaim my power. This newsletter shares the findings from my journey to help others break free from unhealthy attachment cycles and form genuine connections.
Why launch this newsletter now?
I launched “Love Doesn’t Exist” now because I recognised a growing need for evidence-based insights into modern relationships. With increasing complexities and misinformation surrounding love, I aim to provide timely, actionable advice that addresses these challenges and empowers you to navigate your relationships effectively.
How often will I receive the newsletter?
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